That can’t be it - - he (she) was only a child when that happened
When someone feels intensely threatened by an event he or she is involved in or witnesses, we call that event a trauma. Child traumatic stress (CTS) is a psychological reaction that some children have to a traumatic experience. Childhood trauma results from anything that disrupts a child’s sense of safety and security, including:
Automobile accidents
Serious injuries or illness
Acts of violence
Sexual, physical, or verbal abuse
The unexpected death of a loved one
An unstable or unsafe environment
Domestic violence
Neglect
Bullying
Not every child who experiences a traumatic event will develop symptoms of CTS. But 1 out of every 4 children will experience a traumatic event before the age of 16, and some of these children will develop CTS. If left untreated, CTS can interfere with a child’s healthy development and lead to long-term difficulties. Children who have been traumatized see the world as a frightening and dangerous place. When childhood trauma remains unresolved, this fundamental sense of fear and helplessness may carry over into adulthood. Children who suffer from CTS may experience:
Behavioral changes
Difficulties in school
Difficulties eating and sleeping
Withdrawal
Aches and Pains
Anxiety
Depression
When a child has experienced a traumatic event, he or she may be struggling with upsetting emotions, frightening memories, or a sense of constant danger. Children who have experienced trauma may feel numb, disconnected, and unable to trust other people.
When trauma occurs, it can take a while to get over the pain and feel safe again. But with effective treatment, self-help strategies, and support, we can often speed up the recovery.
If you suspect your child may be suffering from the consequences of child traumatic stress, please feel free to contact me to find out how I may be of help.